Living with roommates or flatmates can be one of the most exciting yet challenging parts of student life. Here are some fun tips to help you navigate relationships and set boundaries with those you live with, while keeping the vibe positive and harmonious.
1. The Great House Meeting
Kick off your cohabitation adventure with a house meeting to discuss things like the Cleaning Rota: Decide who’s cleaning what and when, and Quiet Hours: Establish when it's time to keep the noise down, especially during late-night study sessions or early morning routines.
2. Create a Communication Station
Set up a communication station in a common area with a whiteboard or a bulletin board. This can be a fun place to leave notes, reminders, or even doodles. Forgot to take out the trash? Leave a friendly note. Hosting a study group? Give your roomies a heads-up.
3. Respect Personal Space
Everyone needs their own little corner of peace. Respect closed doors and knock before entering. If you share a bedroom, consider using headphones for late-night tv binges and invest in a good pair of earplugs for uninterrupted sleep.
4. Food: Share or Beware?
Decide early on whether you’re going to share food or keep things separate. A communal snack stash can be fun, but make sure everyone contributes. Labeling your food can also prevent those awkward “who ate my leftovers?” conversations.
5. Fun Times Together
Plan regular fun activities to bond with your roommates. Movie nights, pizza parties, or even a weekly game night can strengthen your connection and make living together more enjoyable. Remember, it's not just about cohabiting but also about creating lasting friendships.
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6. Respect Differences
You might have different schedules, habits, or even cultures. Embrace these differences and learn from each other. Be open-minded and patient. Your roommate’s strange-looking breakfast might become your new favorite dish!
7. Handle Conflicts Like a Pro
Conflicts are inevitable, but handling them maturely is key. Approach disagreements calmly and listen to each other’s perspectives. Compromise is your best friend. If someone’s loud music is bothering you, ask politely for them to turn it down and offer a solution, like designated quiet hours.
8. Set Boundaries with Kindness
It’s important to set boundaries, but how you do it makes all the difference. Be honest but kind. If you need alone time to study or relax, let your roommates know. They’ll appreciate your honesty and reciprocate with respect for your needs.
9. Celebrate Milestones Together
Whether it’s a roommate’s birthday, passing an exam, or just surviving a tough week, celebrate together. These small celebrations can strengthen your bond and create a supportive living environment.
10. Remember the Golden Rule
Treat your roommates the way you want to be treated. A little respect, consideration, and kindness go a long way in making shared living a delightful experience.
Living with roommates can be complicated, but with good communication, mutual respect, and a dash of fun, it can also be one of the most rewarding parts of your student life. So, buckle up, embrace the quirks, and enjoy the ride! As well, feel free to share your own tips in comments! :)
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Warm wishes,
Loreta, OLS Community Manager – Croatian